It is so easy to be caught up in the busyness of life and yet to forget the ones that mean the most to us. This verse hits directly home with me. Your husband is “the others”. Doing starts first with your husband and then for others. If you find that you can’t do for your husband, then you have a heart problem with God. Your first priority is always God first and then your husband is your next priority.
I have noticed in my own life that if I can’t follow this verse with my husband then I have a spiritual problem that needs to be dealt with. There is no way to do for others if I can’t even do for my husband.
Take a time out and pray that the Lord help you with doing for your husband first and then everything else will fall in place for you to do for others.